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親愛的月之子,你可能依賴某人太深,而這個人很可能並不是你的父母。
你生命中有個人成為了你可靠的幫助與指引來源,這本是件好事,但隨著時間推移,你或
許已對他過度依賴。
有人在你生命中帶來溫暖、安慰、安心與協助,並沒有什麼不好——但若依賴過度,反而
會削弱你自身的力量。
下次當你想依賴這個人去做某件你自己也能完成的事情時,試著自己來做。
斬斷那條依賴的線。
You may be wrapped up in someone's "apron strings," dear Moonchild, and this p
robably is not a parent. There is someone in your life who has become a reliab
le source of help and guidance, which is a great thing, but you may have becom
e overly dependent on them over time. There is nothing at all wrong with havin
g someone in your life who provides a source of warmth, comfort, reassurance,
and help - but if you become too dependent, it can take away your own power. T
he next time you feel drawn to rely on this person for something you can do yo
urself, do it yourself. Break the strings.
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