看板Cancer
被大量未經請求的建議淹沒,可能會讓人感到惱怒與挫折。
我們都有過這樣的經驗。
當有人告訴你你做得不對,或是告訴你他們認為你應該怎麼做時,甚至可能讓你覺得受到
了侮辱。
有些人也許會試圖說服你以某種方式處理問題,儘管那並不符合你的直覺。
感謝他們的建議,並試著理解這是出於好意。
然後,按照你認為最適合的方式去做。
你很可能是對的,巨蟹座,而最終的結果將證明你的選擇是正確的。
Being inundated with unasked-for advice can be aggravating and frustrating. We
have all been there. When someone tells you that what you're doing is wrong o
r tells you what they think you should be doing, it might even feel insulting.
Someone may be trying to persuade you to handle an issue in a certain way, ev
en though it does not feel right to you. Thank them for their advice and try t
o understand that it comes from a well-meaning place. Then do what you feel is
best. You are likely right, Cancer, and the result will be your validation.
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