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Sharing a critical opinion with someone today could backfire on you - even if
they ask for it. Someone may come to you on the premise of needing guidance, h
oping to hear what they want to hear. If you don't see things the same way as
they do, however, and you share your candid thoughts and observations, it migh
t cause hurt and even insult. Even so, you can help if you frame your critical
thoughts with kindness and encouragement. That way, you can let them know the
ir efforts are valid and appreciated, and you can give them positive direction
at the same time.
今天跟某個人分享批評性的建議可能會產生不利的影響 — 即使是他們要求你這樣做。
有人可能會以需要指導為前提來找你,希望聽到他們想聽到的話。
然而,如果你跟他們的看法不同,並且分享你坦率的想法與觀察,
則可能會造成傷害甚至侮辱。
即便如此,如果你用善意和鼓勵來建構你批判性的想法,你就能提供幫助。
這樣,你可以讓他們知道他們的努力是有效的並且受到讚賞,
你可以給他們積極的指導。
Ps. 如果有誤譯請指教,謝謝。
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