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當面對一個控制狂時,最好的策略就是不要讓自己也變成控制狂!
親愛的月之子,你可能現在感到防備,因為某個個性特別強勢的人正試圖把他們的意願強
加在你身上。
你或許會想要躲進自己的殼裡,以避免與這個強硬且過於強勢的人發生衝突,但這也不是
一個好主意。
相反地,你應該堅持你的立場,表達你的感受。
解釋你的想法,舉例說明為什麼你想按照自己的方式行事。
不要放棄!
When dealing with a control freak, the best strategy is not to become a contro
l freak yourself! You may be feeling defensive now as someone with a particula
rly strong personality tries to impose what they want to do onto you, dear Moo
nchild. You may feel inclined to retreat to your shell to avoid the backlash o
f dealing with someone who is harsh and overly assertive, but that's not a goo
d idea either. Instead, be persistent in your resistance. Explain how you feel
. Give examples of why you want to do what you want to do. Don't give up.
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